June 27, 2009
Your Biggest Challenge
This affects you…
If you are currently earning an income from coaching, training or NLP (or you would like to), then you must check out this new controversial report written by my top marketing expert Dan Bradbury:
Click Here To FInd Out Why Coaching Is Dead>>
You see without a doubt the biggest challenge facing coaches, trainers and NLPers today is finding clients. The fact of the matter is the marketplace has changed radically over the past 12 months and what used to get clients is now just a waste of your time, energy and money.
This report is not for the faint of heart, in fact some people have been offended by the blunt, say it as it is way in which it is written. (Personally I think Dans right on the money)
However, if youre open to new ideas and concepts then you must check it out. It details the 5 biggest problems you are facing in todays market and 5 radical new strategies for overcoming them.
You can download it here
I can personally vouch for this, in my opinion Dan is without a doubt a marketing genius who has helped me massively over the past few years and I strongly recommend you get this report now!
Click Here To FInd Out Why Coaching Is Dead>>
P.S. Rumour has it that this report has upset a few people, so download it quickly, before Dan has to take it down
50 extreme ways you can save
June 11, 2009
From re-using your underwear to DIY haircuts you can spend less
Unless you’re an expenses-fiddling MP or a bailed-out banker, money is getting tighter all the time.
So it’s hardly surprising that a phenomenon, extreme saving, is sweeping Britain.
Some people are turning to radical and, at times, downright daft ways to avoid spending – and we’re not just talking about buying fewer clothes and flogging more on eBay. Brad Liebman, managing director of voucher website bview.co.uk, behind the extreme saving trend, said: “In the current climate, everyone needs to save money any way they can. Everyone has an oddball relative who finds wacky ways to save, but now this extreme saving trend has moved into the mainstream.”
So, whether you’re mixing your own cheap lemonade in the pub, re-using underwear, or getting your washing done at a friends house, remember the mantra: Cheap is good but free is better.
1 – Instead of paying for lemonade in restaurants order water with lemon slices, squeeze the juice into the water and add sugar.
2 – Save cash in the pub by letting mates buy the first three rounds. By the fourth they will have forgotten whose turn it is, at least one will be on halves by then – or still have a drink.
3 – Wash the car at your petrol station using the forecourt’s own water and squeegee – even better do it just before it rains.
4 – Find the freebies – pencils from IKEA, betting shop pens and coffee in the receptions of some banks, including HSBC. Or try a branch of Nespresso which plugs their £99 coffee machines by offering free samples.
5 – Tell relatives and friends you are going away for Christmas and buy their gifts in the New Year sales.
6 – Take home free ketchup, salt, pepper, sugar sachets and pour them into your own branded bottles.
7 – Sew teabags down the middle then cut them in half. Or just dry one and use it again.
8 – Fill a container with water and freeze your credit card. If there’s something you want, waiting for the card to defrost will give you ample time to consider that purchase.
9 – Use the bags in cereal boxes as storage bags. Finish the cereal then take out the bag, fill it with whatever you want to store, fold over the top and put a peg on it.
10 – Never pay full price for an umbrella, Instead pretend you’ve lost yours and get one from lost property at a railway station. But give it back when you’ve finished with it.
11 – Ring people when you know they won’t be in and leave a message so they ring you back.
12 – Wash your clothes underfoot while in the shower to save on water. Wash yourself first then start stomping on your clothes and watch the suds clean them. The average annual cost of using a washing machine is £30.
13 – Men, don’t bother shaving every day. A pack of four multi-bladed razor blades costs around £4.50, let your chin get a bit stubbly and they’ll last far longer.
14 – Have a barbeque and invite everyone you know. Get them all to bring a bottle and food. You’ve just got lunch and drinks for nothing. If someone buys and brings a disposable barbie, even better.
15 – Take longer between shopping trips.
Try skipping a trip to the supermarket altogether and eating what’’s already in your fridge.
16 – Gym membership can cost a fortune so exercise at home. Press-ups, sit-ups and squats do not require any equipment and will still get you in shape – for free. Try “earning” your leisure time, so if you want to watch the telly you have to exercise while you do it.
17 – Drop the internet connection. You can always read real encyclopaedias instead of Wikipedia, and post letters instead of using email. You can always check your emails at your local library or any Apple store to make use of their complimentary service.
18 – Only read in daylight. Why waste money on electricity if you don’t have to? Instead, only use the light bulbs you really require.
19 – Don”t be ashamed of asking for a doggy bag when you cannot finish your meal at a restaurant. You can often make a full meal out of it the following night just by adding salad.
20 – Tell a mate your washing machine has broken and that you’ll have to use theirs. It’ll work on each friend at least once.
21 – When shopping for fruit and veg, remove the stalks from apples and cherries to cut weight.
22 – If your water supply is metered, use the toilet at your friend or relative’s house and watch your bill drop.
23 – Take home a flask of hot water from work to make your tea with at home because they’ve already paid to boil it.
24 – Call people, identify yourself and chat for a minute, then suddenly hang up. They will almost always call back. Express surprise that the call ended, and continue the conversation at their expense. But be warned that doing this too often could strain friendships.
25 – Change your home phone to a special premium rate number. This will earn you a fortune and you will really find out who your friends are – because only those willing to spend up to £1 a minute to hear your voice will call. See phonenumbers 4u.co.uk to buy a line but remember, legally, you must warn people of the cost when you give the number.
26 – If you have a pet dog, take them with you when you visit a friend who also has a dog – and let your dog eat the food they’ve left for their own pet.
27 – Instead of wasting all that cash getting your sons” hair cut at the hairdresser, buy a pair of hair clippers – the Remington Titanium Washable Cordless Hair Clipper Set costs £19.99 – and give them a buzz cut at home instead.
28 – Be radical and shave your own head, too that way you’ll save on shampoo. The average person uses up 198 bottles of shampoo in their lifetime and each bottle costs £3.10 on average.
29 – Desperate times call for desperate measures. Don’t launder your underwear after one wear. Re-use them by turning them inside out, then back to front – saving on wasted washing powder and water. Or why not skip underwear altogether, weather permitting? Going commando will further reduce your weekly wash load. Just be careful zipping up your jeans, fellas.
30 – Make your own gifts. What’s more important than the quality is the fact that you spent hours making them it is the thought that counts, after all. You could knit someone a scarf or – for two gifts in one – fill a nice glass or small vase with sweets then tie with ribbon.
31 – If you drive in the country, pick up roadkill, clean it up and eat for dinner. The Original Roadkill Cookbook, full of tasty recipes, is only £4.99 from amazon.co.uk – or better still, borrow the book from your library.
32 – Join St John Ambulance as a volunteer. You will be trained in first aid and despite being on duty, you will be able to enjoy free Premiership football matches and great gigs.
33 – Pop into your local chemist on your way to work in the morning and do your make up with the testers and samples. Men can go for the free aftershave too.
34 – Be cheeky in the supermarket. If the person ahead in the queue doesn’t have a club card, then offer them yours. You’ll get the reward points.
35 – If you have a garage for your car, reverse into it. If you do it the other way and reverse out in the morning, from cold, you use 80 per cent more fuel than if you drove forwards instead. This works for driveways too.
36 – Water down your washing up liquid. With a good brand you can put in the same amount of water again and you won”t be able to tell the difference.
37 – Instead of taking your dirty shirts to the dry cleaners or laundrette, give them Oxfam. They will wash and iron them and you can buy them back for as little as 50p.
38 – Save the leftover bits of soap bars and compress them into a “new” one. Hey presto, a free bar of soap!
39 – Only ever charge your mobile phone at work. But make sure this is not prohibited by their employee conduct policy otherwise you could lose your job. Also, charge your laptop at work and run it off the batteries at home – that way, you”re not paying a penny for the electricity costs of running at. You will save £9 per year on average by charging both of them outside the home.
40 – Make a compost heap in your back garden and grow your own fruit and veg – much cheaper than buying them from supermarkets. You will save around £5 per week.
41 – Don’t put stamps on anything non-important that you are sending to a business. They will normally pay for postage at their end.
42 – Borrow DVDs from your local library rather than the video shop – they’re about half the price, saving you around £2 on average.
43 – Microwave rock hard stale bread for 10 seconds and it’ll be warm, soft and ready to eat again. But check for mould first.
44 – Many gyms provide free shampoo and shower gel in the showers. If you’re shameless, you can fill up your empty shower gel and shampoo bottles.
45 – When your tube of toothpaste is so empty you can”t squeeze out any more, cut it open with scissors and you’ll have enough for another few days.
46 – Buy only supermarket ownbrand food. Your family may not thank you for it, but you can point out all the extra cash you’ve got to spend on everything else. For example, instead of buying Farmhouse Fare Bread & Butter Pudding for £ 3.99, go for Co-operative Truly Irresistible Bread and Butter Pudding, 400g, £ 2.79. The pudding was a Quality Food 47 Awards winner last year.
47 – Some branches of Pret A Manger give away their cakes for free if they”ve reached their sell-by date at closing time. So swing by and bag yourself a free chocolate brownie or Love Bar.
48 – Make sandwiches at home instead of buying them at work and save around £20 per week. And re-use plastic sandwich bags instead of throwing them away. Just shake any crumbs away, rinse them out and dry them.
49 – Vinegar and lemon juice make great kitchen cleaners – and are far cheaper than cleaning creams.
50 – Have a no-spend month once a year where you try your best not to spend a penny. Stock up the freezer and make sure you have got a monthly travel pass if you’re using the bus or train. If your whole family can manage this you will all reap the rewards.
Recovery Lines For Best Man Speeches
June 10, 2009
If in the unlikely event that your Best Man speech is not going down too well or worse if you forget your lines then you need to have a few recovery lines available to rescue the speech.
While either scenario seems dreadful if you think on your feet then your speech will be rescued and confidence will be restored.
Scenario 1 – Joke is poorly-received
Rescue line – Look at the ushers and say “that’s the last time I’m using one of your jokes again guys.”
Scenario 2 – You forget your lines
Rescue line -Take out a copy of your speech from your pocket, take a few seconds to compose yourself and then hold your speech up for all to see and say something witty like “as you can see I wasn’t expecting to speak today.”
Scenario 3- Someone heckles you.
Rescue line1- (if you know the person) “Jon I thought alcoholics were meant to be anonymous.”
Rescue line2- (if you dont know the person) “That’s okay mate, I remember my first beer too.”
Each of these scenarios are extremely unlikely but bear these examples in mind should you need to recover at any stage of your speech.
How to Get to Know Yourself Better
June 7, 2009
It is your human right to be your authentic self. You do not need permission from anyone else. You do not have to do as you are told. The way to live life is to choose to do what excites you and stop worrying about what people and issues outside of you control “might” be thinking or saying about you. You need to move away for this need of doggy biscuits of approval from other people.The way to do this is to get to know yourself better. Do you know what excites you? Are you able to listen to what your mind and body are telling you?
By opening up to this type of self awareness, in turn you are opening your life to new exciting opportunities.
You are like an iceberg, there is what is on the surface. The part of you on the surface that everyone sees is only about 25% of who you are. What is hidden underneath holds so much more.
So how do you want to live? You could be seen as an elegant swan floating across a pond. But what is going on underneath. Are you paddling like crazy to stay afloat or are you relaxed and enjoying the experience of life?
If you know who you are, you can take responsibility from within for your life. If you are focus on the surface of what other people see, you are just opening yourself to anxiety and stress where too many what if questions can be asked.
Self-awareness gives you control. What will you do that excites you? What do you want if you could have anything? Maybe it is not that unrealistic if you focus on it.
What Stops You From Being Sure of Yourself?
June 7, 2009
Your self esteem has the biggest impact on any decision you make, whatever path you choose. You need to ask yourself why has your self-esteem got so low; social isolation, bad relationships, bullies, no direction or just conflict wherever you go.So how are you going to snap out of this downward cycle? How can you achieve whatever you want by establishing a foundation of confidence in your life?
There is a powerful rule you need to apply to your life, “what you focus on is what you get”.
Your brain is like a field, and every thought you have is a seed. Your human nature means you automatically look to follow your thoughts. You are programmed this way, you cannot fight it, you need to dance with it.
So just think, every bad thought you have, you will try to make it happen. You need to start thinking more positively in every situation.
If you have a particularly bad memory, ask yourself what you would do differently if it were to happen again?
If you want to like yourself more, focus on the aspects you like about yourself. By ignoring the rest it will eventually lose the power it holds over you.
If you start living you life this way, with a positive focus, other people will value you more as you are seen as the strong person who knows what they want.
If you believe you can do something, you will. You might just need to learn some new skills to get there

